Wednesday, July 17, 2013

Is Emotional Intelligence (EI) just as important as IQ in the Workplace?







So just what is emotional intelligence? With the risk of oversimplifying,
emotional intelligence is the dimension of intelligence responsible for our
ability to manage ourselves and our relationships with others. Included
are skills that drive our internal world as well as our response to the
external world. There are five components of emotional intelligence.
They include: a well-honed timing for emotional expression and
emotional control; empathy for others; social expertise that allows us to
develop strong working relationships; personal influence that helps us
advance our purpose with others; and an integrity that aligns us with our
life's purpose.

Each day in the workplace, an employee's emotional intelligence is put to
the test. Most often, how an employee reacts to situations will build
goodwill and co-operation with customers and colleagues or will further
drive wedges into tenuous relationships. When an employee can master
appropriate internal emotional reactions to situations and also master his
external response, the employee is working with a high level of emotional
intelligence. Too often, feelings of self-doubt, frustration or anger will
take over and control a person's outward expression in a particular
situation. How many times have you heard a person say, "I just couldn't
help it, I was just so frustrated I had to react the way I did?"

As an employer, it's important that you recognize that those reactions can
also paralyze the work that gets done. Underlying tensions and emotions
make their way to every meeting and every encounter in the workplace.
Yes, I know, you have probably been taught that emotion doesn't belong
in the workplace. But the reality is that it's inescapable. Emotion is
present in the workplace - everyday, everywhere. Therefore, as you have
improved your business by way of applying intellectual resources, now is
the time to recognize that you can also make dramatic improvements that
will help you reach your business goals by improving the emotional
intelligence of your workforce. Unlike IQ, which tends to remain fixed
throughout a person's lifetime, emotional intelligence can be improved over time.

If you want to get an understanding of where you are on the scale of EI and
heighten your awareness then this survey is a good starting point: 
http://www.ihhp.com/?page=freeEQquiz

2 comments:

  1. Apparently I have a slightly above normal EQ - pretty fascinating stuff. I have always enjoyed Myers Briggs Tests, I used to come out as an ENTP - now I come out as an ENTJ - funny how these things develop!

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    1. I'm the same as you then Dan that is why we get on well :) The best leaders are very aware of EQ and are able to relate to people very well!! Not everyone sees the benefits currently so we have to get the message out there...

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